So I was going through my Social Media feed today, 14th February, and it was filled with people expressing their view about this particular day, Valentines Day. Some find it silly as they believe love should be celebrated everyday rather than just one, and some were cutely expressing their love for their partners. I, personally, love "Love". So, for me it's great to have a day dedicated to it.
This blog is little personal, but if you are reading this and if you want to relate, please go ahead. I'm currently single, and of course I had been in relationships too. The men I was with have made me feel happy, sad, swept me off my feet and left me heartbroken. But they surely taught me a lesson, and that's why I don't regret any of my past relationship.
After my first heartbreak, I was devastated. I was just a teenager who believed in "Fairy Tale Romance", and when that was over, I was broken and very sad. But with time, it healed and I grew stronger as a person. Every heartbreak made me stronger and stronger. As an artist, I fed on it. I used my loneliness to find something. And today, I realize what I actually found was a love that would never leave me. I was falling in love with myself. And boy, it changed everything.
I'm not scared to fall in love. I'm not scared to make the person feel like he deserve it all. I believe, if you love someone, you tell them. Everyone has a right to be loved. But again, I'm also not scared of heartbreak or getting hurt. This proves you are still alive. You feel happiness, you are living. You feel pain, you are living. So accept it, embrace it and if hurts too much, let it go.
But while you are loving someone, please do not forget to love yourself. Trust me, nobody loves you more than you. You have seen yourself in every way and you still love yourself. That's how we are. Then why do we sometimes lose ourselves and get filled with insecurities, thinking we are not enough. Believe me, you are. Let them love you for what you are and you do the same. Be so real, that nothing can break you. Be honest to yourself and you'd know what you really really want.
If you are in love right now, that's beautiful. If you are not with someone, don't worry, Love will find you. Love find us all. Maybe in a form of your best friend calling you to tell you some random joke, maybe a puppy running towards your lap, love will find you. That's what it does, it finds us.
Love is two people dancing it the Kitchen.
Love is you supporting a girl who you know through Social media, believing in her dreams.
Love is that girl caring for her readers and trying her best every day to put a smile on their face.
Love is the only thing that'll save this world.
Love every bit of yourself, Darlin' and you'll be fine.
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